To find ourselves at a conference suggests that we need to ensure that all aspects of our personality are in agreement.
Confer / Conference A conference holds the symbolism of a group meeting together to achieve a consensus either of opinion or action.
Confer / Conference Conferring signifies a bringing together of perhaps differing opinions to reach a sense of common ownership.In everyday terms this image will arise when such a consensus is important to progress.The image of a conference can also come up when we find ourselves at odds with the majority.
Conference 1. Listen to the advice and counsel of other people. 2. Be more ﬂexible in one’s thinking; consider a variety of possibilities before reaching a conclusion.